MOTHER'S DAY THOUGHT

Just a few moments ago, after we had a good dinner which really filled up the space of my stomach , it is as what i expected , we went for shopping. It can be assumed that it is our norms and practices in every Sunday, thus so called it Family Day.

It is then a coindence where i met my old friends namely Shuwen and Kahwei at Giant, Taman Connaught. Though i was expected to meet someone , yet, i dont know it would be that accurate. Anyway, it is happy to meet them as i can seldom or rarely meet with them. They grown up to become more matured from the appearance, it is such a shame as i think i still look immatured. Kahwei works there as a promoter and what i saw her doing is , blewing on those balloons for Mother'S Day. Did i really changed a lots ? Shuwen whereas another old friend of mine expressed her view that she is shocked when seeing me wearing singlet. From what they said, i become more wild ( translation from mandarin literally) .Do note that she told it politely and friendly. I still wonder how they judge that, does that statement comes from my appearance ? With wearing a singlet and conclusion has been made that i become more wild ? I said :" Really? I am still as goodie as what i used to be in secondary school ." What i wanted to lay down is , Wearing a singlet doesnt have any indication of ones being more wild or deviant. It is not to mention the thought of my friends but that led me to a thought. Deep thought. However, From another perspective , it is logic and reasonable to be said that what my friend has stated is very correct. What makes it sounds right is , i give an anology here, When someone from China who used to cool weather , he will feels extremely hot in Malaysia whereas for us, Malaysian might even wear sweater ! See the points ?

I was surprised that how prompt can a person takes to judge you? It takes not even a second. Thats why a quote existing as : "You will never get a second chance to make a first impression ." In my personal point of view , this statement can be taken in two way which one is human tends to make an assumption promptly till you may not aware of it and therefore causing another outcome would be your appearance or howsoever you present yourself will be judged by people within a second which indicates you can hardly change the perception of that person who has already judged you. Can i say that , We as a human do have extraordinary abilities on invention and we are the controller of those invented thing. What i wanted to deliever is, though we are strong enough to control machines, we cant control our thought. It is sometime contradicting that when we say, we are human, the soul of all kinds when we sought out a solution. In another way, we then say, we are layman and ordinary enough when we failed. Isn't it is us who give excuses ? Is it the nature of human kind ? What do you think?

Over Decades ago , the so-called sciencetist strongly argue that the earth is in square shape , which in fact with the advance of knowledge of technology and of course the way man think has improved. Hence they found the earth is in sphere. In fact, it is then another arguments on that matter, the earth might not neccessarily to be sphere, but it is out of shape depending on how you define and interpret the word of " SPHERE". Don't yout think so ?

In my personal opinion, don't make assumption on something so confidentaly if you dont have any strong fact or evidence to support that and please do aware that , it is hardly to confirm something in such a absolute way. What i have opined don't have the intention to restrict ones thought, but merely a point of view.However , based on the points above, shall i make a conclusion that , Man likes to judge. Do tell me your thought about that as i am one of the victim who have restrictive thinking and may not be critical enough. Haha...

Another incident to share with you all is , Mother's Day Theory. Haha...i have mentioned in the above that i met my friend in Giant. My friend asked me to give a flower to my mother and i refused it. The reason i refuse that suggestion is, first, i am Not romantic enough. ( I guess it will attracts lot of criticsm if i refused based on this reason itself only.) My friend said:" Give a flower to you mother la , today is mother's day ma !" Secondly, Frankly speaking, i refused that on the grounds that, she mentioned MOTHER'S DAY. It is a special day where everyone is celebrating on that, but, NOTHING MORE SPECIAL THAN MY MUM. Mother's Day is getting commercialise which there are least of appreciation. However, i am still thankful to my friend that she reminded me how important mother is . I think you all will agree that , not mother's day that makes mother special , it is mother's who makes this day special. Yes, nothing more special than mother. Isnt it ?