当我老了 <>


--- --------我的婆婆My Grandma.----------



当我老了，不再是原来的我。
请理解我，对我有一点耐心。


When i am getting older , It is not who i am before .
Please understand me , Be patience when you are facing me .　　





当我把菜汤洒到自己衣服上时，当我忘记怎样系鞋带时，
请想一想当初我是如何手把手地教你。

When i accidentaly fallen the vege-soup on my shirt and
When i forgot to tie up my shoelace ,
Please do think of how i taught you hand-by-hand those days.





当我一遍又一遍地重复你早已听腻的话语，
请耐心地听我说，不要打断我。你小的时候，我不得不重复那个讲过千百遍的故事，直到你进入梦乡。　　

When i keep repeat and repeat the things that i have said ,
Please listen to me in patience , don't stop me .
Do remember that when you were young , I have no choice but to repeat the story for times until you are asleep .




当我需要你帮我洗澡时，
请不要责备我。还记得小时候我千方百计哄你洗澡的情形吗？　

When i need you to bath me ,
Please don't be mad at me , Do you still remember the scene where i keep convincing you to take shower when you were young ?　





当我对新科技和新事物不知所措时，请不要嘲笑我。
想一想当初我怎样耐心地回答你的每一个“为什么”。　

When i am lost and ignorance on latest technology and the recent stuff ,
Please to laugh at me ,
Do think of how i answered you for every"WHY"which you have asked .




当我由于双腿疲劳而无法行走时，请伸出你年轻有力的手搀扶我。
就像你小时候学习走路时，我扶你那样。　　

When my legs is getting tired and it does no allow me to walk ,
Do give me your strong hands to help me ,
It is just the same way i did when you take your first step.




当我忽然忘记我们谈话的主题，请给我一些时间让我回想。
其实对我来说，谈论什么并不重要，只要你能在一旁听我说，我就很满足。　　

When i lose memory on the thread of our conversation , Do give me times to recall my memory.
It is indeed not important of my conversation with you ,
It is enough for my satisfaction to have you beside me and listen to me .





当你看着老去的我，请不要悲伤。
理解我，支持我，就像你刚开始学习如何生活时我对你那样。

When you looking at me who is getting older ,
Please dont be sad and down about that , but ,
Do understand me , support me , as how i treat you when you were first starting to learn the way of living .





当初我引导你走上人生路，如今请陪伴我走完最后的路。
给我你的爱和耐心，我会报以感激的微笑，这微笑中凝结着我对你无限的爱。

Last times i led you the way to step up your life ,
please then accompany me until the end of my life ,
Give me your love and patience ,
and I will pay you by the lovely smile , where the smile full with the immense and unlimited love that i always had and have for you.

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当我读了这篇简单的字句，这篇简单的文章，就直接打入我的心房。简单的字句，且流露出一位年老父母的心声。那么的直接，十分得贴切。无常，就是它让我们的父母逐渐苍老，然而这是任何人都无法改变的原理。叶儿终会干枯而落，花儿亦会枯萎凋谢。徐徐而来得年老，随水而来的时间，那么无情。如今，他将会让我们的父母以及大家都逐渐随着岁月老去。
试想，各位：“以上的，不就是你们打从心底的心声吗？”

静下来，看下周遭，都无时无刻的表现着生老病死。
听不到?静下来，聆听那潺潺的水流声，你会感觉到：“很多事情就那么一刹那。”
就在呼吸之间。

珍惜。爱惜。知恩。感恩。报恩。绝对不是怜惜，就算是，就怜惜自己为何不珍惜。

Fellow friends , when i first read this passage ,this such a simple and easy passage . I was touched. I stopped and stand still . It is just so true . I was being amazed by the author. I read it in chinese originally and i translated it . It might be not good grammatically. I tried just to share with you all.

Look at your dad and mum , isnt they are aging in terms of psychologically and physically ? We tend to blame everything to our parents. They do have mistake ,and we might dislike it . They do it all the way just to prepare the best way to our life. Come on , we are human , mistake is always happening ? How do u define mistake ?

Think of it . It is so true . just so true ......